For your convenience, and to both expedite bookings & help convos flow more smoothly, so we are both on the same page (as well as just for ur own erudition 😉), I am including this list of common SW acronyms, terms, phrases, & abbreviations:
BBBJ – Bare Back Blow Job (no condom)
BBBJTC - Bare Back Blow Job To Completion
BBW – Big Beautiful Woman
BDSM – Bondage, Discipline (or dominatiom) and Sadomasochism
Bondassage –Use of restraints during massage to increase relaxation & tacticle pleasure
CIM – Cum in Mouth
CIMWS – Cum In Mouth & Swallow
Cisgender (Cis) – The description of a person who identifies with the sex they were assigned at birth
CBJ – Covered Blow Job
CMT-Certified Massage Therapist
COF – Cum on Face
DATY – ‘Dining at the Y’ (oral sex on female partner)
DFK – Deep French Kissing
DT – Deep Throat
FBSM: Full Body Sensual Massage (vs purely therapeutic massage)
FIV: Finger in Vagina
FMTY: Fly Me To You (a term used by high-end providers whose clients fly them to a specific destination for an appointment)
FtM (F2M) – Female to Male, a description of a trans* person’s gender
Feminine/Masculine Presenting – A way to describe someone without using specifically gendered language
GFE-Girlfriend Experience-ie, kissing, cuddling, possibly pillow talk/intimate conversation
*PLEASE NOTE: For MOST providers, this term does NOT infer sex w/o a condom!*
Nuru: A type of sensual Japanese massage in which both client & practitioner are typically nude & the practitioner uses full body (coated in oil) for the massage
Open relationship - mutually consenting non-monogamous relationship
Pansexual – Someone attracted to all gender identities
PNDP – Please No Dick Pics
PSE aka Porn Star Experience - sexual experience inspired by common pornography
SAAB – Sex Assigned At Birth
Snowballing – The act of passing semen from one person’s mouth to another
Squirting – Female ejaculation during orgasm
Strap on/Pegging – A dildo (usually worn by the female) used on the other partner (usually male) for anal stimulatiom
Strip tease – An erotic dance that involves taking clothes off
Sugaring (Sugar baby/Sugar daddy) - A relationship in which one party (often the male) financially supports the other party in exchange for companionship and often sexual intimacy.
SW – Sex Worker/s
Toy show –Masturbation using toys-ie dildos, vibrators, etc...
Transgender - A gender description of a person who is going through or has completed a gender transition
Trans– An umbrella term covering identities that transgress binary gender norms
Water sports: sexual activities involving urine/urination
Whorearchy: A sort of class system among sex workers, based on stigma and discrimination.
I hope this list, while it certainly does not cover everything, is helpful!!
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